Someone asked me to sum up my time in Morocco in one word- I chose thought provoking. Of course I’m having fun too- everywhere we go is new and exciting and my time with my new friends provides stomach aching laughter. But this weekend especially taught me so much about Moroccans and how they truly live.
On Saturday we were able to tour Fez with a professor from here at AUI. The Fez medina is a cultural heritage sight, but what is unique about it is that it still in use now. There are no cars allowed in the medina, as the widest streets are only wide enough to accommodate a donkey and a person or two, while the narrowest can fit just a person. Most of the medina is filled with shops that cater to Moroccans’ everyday life, specializing in textiles, leather, and copper. Its truly fascinating to walk through time in these streets, and yet know that it still functions as it always has. One important fact to note is that in the medina itself, there are 1,050 people living per hectare (4 acres), whereas outside the medina, in the wealthier areas, there are 5 people living per hectare. Imagine how it looks for the people who live there then- house on top of house between house, and so forth.


We also had an opportunity to visit the Jewish quarter of Fez. Jews used to be abundant in Fez, acting as the financial handlers of the monarchy (and thus living very close the royal palace of Fez), but now number fewer than 100. The synagogue remains, but it is rarely used but for special occasions. It is still, however, beautiful.

On Saturday evening, we went to stay in a Berber village called Zawiya Sidi Abdsalem about 15 minutes away from our university. This village dates back from the early 1600s, when Sidi Ibsalem established a Sufi Order there. He is buried there, and the village is thus a pilgrimage site. More importantly, everyone in the village claims descent from Sidi Abdsalem.
Courtney, a Peace Corps volunteer stationed there working on small business development, facilitated our stay. Two of us each were assigned to stay with a family- my family was all women (until the last day, when one woman’s husband returned for lunch)- an older woman who seemed to be the matriarch, several women, and many children! In this village, people used to live in caves because it was cooler in the summer and warmed in the winter, and now they have built their houses around the caves, so that many homes still have the caves in them. In our house, it was used for storage and as a lounge.
In this village, we had an opportunity to see how most Moroccans truly live, as removed from our insulated wealthy university. Before we had arrived, there was no water for four days. Once while there, the power went out for about a half hour. They use “Turkish” toilets, which are a hole in the ground which you flush out with a bucket of water. They were over-generous with the food they shared with us, which is part of the culture here- they push and push food upon their guests until you finally have to forcibly indicate that you are full. They are so generous and hospitable! Our family only spoke their local Berber dialect and a bit of Moroccan Arabic, so we had difficulty communicating- but we managed with hand gestures and the few words we could share in French, English, or Arabic.
The most exciting part of our days with them was the Berber wedding on Saturday night! After dinner (which is at 10:30-11) the wedding started at midnight (before which our entire household visited with another group of women, during which we were encouraged to essentially take a shot of orange juice!!). There is a procession, during which the bride is carried on a traditional gold and silver platform. Then the bride and groom sit on a traditional “throne” overlooking the party, and the entire village that has come out to watch and is lining the street on chairs, benches, walls, the floor, etc. The bridge and groom change outfits multiple times, there is music and dancing, and it all goes on until 5 am! Luckily we were able to sneak out around 2!


This was such an eye opening experience- to Berber/Moroccan culture, to economic status, to who has access to what resources and luxuries, how different people live throughout the world, and also our similarities. I especially want to note how admirable the work that Courtney, our Peace Corps volunteer does, and the adversities and joys she faces daily while carrying it out.
P.S. Just to end this on a light note…one of the Berber ladies in my house did in fact ask me to breast feed her baby. I politely declined…although it was a cute baby.